The question of relationship genuineness and sincerity alarms many couples, who just start dating or date distantly. In fact, if a woman cannot answer when she is asked straight about her feelings and attitude, it is not always a sign of her embarrassment or restraint.

She may be a player who perfectly plays a double game. In this case, analyse her behaviour and find out whether she makes a fool of you or not. Perhaps, she is not a factual player but makes it unintentionally because she is not confident yet in her intentions. In this case, the analysis will help both of you look into yourselves and understand whether this relationship is worth continuing.

The signs of “her being a player” are applied both for distant and usual dating. Of course, there is the difference between two, but, frankly speaking, our behaviour and attitude toward each other does not depend on distance. It depends on the depth of feelings and seriousness of intentions. Here are some examples.

• She says that she loves you but somewhat differently, for example, like brother or close friend. This means that she values the relationship with you and, perhaps, she even try to believe that feelings and passion will appear one time or another, but, in reality, friendly attitude seldom grows into love.

Perhaps, you are not in her taste or not into her and she does not know how to say it correctly. Perhaps, she does not want to ruin the relationship forever thus, she continues holding you tightly, but at the same time, not allowing you getting closer.

• She changes often and unexpectedly. For instance, yesterday her voice in the phone was filled with passion and attention. Today she is cold like as an iceberg as if you speak to each other for the first time.

However, as she notices that you start speculating on the idea, she starts being hot again. Therefore, she changes like autumn weather just to check and appreciate her own ability and skill of charming, seducing and playing with men.

• She never says “I am sorry” before you say it. If in all quarrels only you make a compromise, even if she is guilty more, it is high time to realize that your attitudes toward each other are unequal.

The questions arouses willy-nilly – “Why does she need it at all?” Perhaps, her haughty character does not allow her to say “I am sorry” or she actually does not feel her fault. But this also means that she does not value you and this is a thing to think about.

• Your relationship reminds you a swamp that pushes you down deeper and deeper. The time you spend together becomes too monotonous, there is not much to say to each other, and if you did not say something, she would not maintain the conversation.

You try to change something and receive no reaction or negative reaction in return. She may continue dating you just automatically until she finds someone else.

• She speaks about irrelevant things and does not pay attention to your presence. She speaks about her former relationship, she laughs at people you don’t know at all, she speaks as if you are her girlfriend. This means she does not accept you as a man with whom she can have serious relationship.
• She phones you only if she needs something. In other words, you are the initiator of all phone calls, she phones only for urgent matters. Here one cannot refer to phone calls’ expensiveness. If a woman is really interested in you, she will phone you just to hear your voice. May be, she will do it seldom, but still she will.
• She starts laughing at you. She finds out your drawbacks and by noticing them, she hurts your self-esteem. Now you know everything about yourself and it is better to put an end to this relationship. Loving and caring woman is never able to laugh at drawbacks. On the contrary, she transparently and skillfully helps you to get rid of these drawbacks.
• She does not care of your career and other things you do. She is not elated when you win and she does not support you when you lose. This says about her indifference and selfishness and its up to you whether you want to continue relationship with this kind of woman or not.

Perhaps, the list is not complete and there are other signs of indifference. But these are enough to draw reasonable conclusions and come to definite decisions.