In general, men prefer dating and marrying free women with no children, and women do the same. But what if you look at the photo, read her introduction letter and like everything about her except her having children? See what both women and men think about it.

What women say about dating and marrying men with children?

According to polls and surveys conducted among women and their messages at discussion forums, women are not against it. Naturally being tuned for being a mother and a housewife, a woman will love children of her chosen one. This happens in majority of cases.

If a woman sets her mind from the very beginning to date a man with children, she is adjusted for serious relations. In other cases, she would not even start dating.

In most cases, if a woman really loves man, she understands her responsibilities and accepts him and his children as a ‘package deal’.

Some women think that a man with children should better date a woman who also has children. This woman will feel comfortable with her partner’s children since she also has hers. Both partners will share equal positions and responsibilities.

In addition, many women who have children would rather prefer dating men with children because if a man has loving and caring relationship with his children, he will be more acceptable of woman’ children.

Women consider that men with children are usually more responsible and settled down, they know what they want to achieve as well as everything about family life.

Well, in general, women do not regard men’s children as an obstacle to happiness and love.

What men think about dating and marrying women with children?

Well, it may sound disappointing for lonely mothers, but the majority of men prefer avoiding any relationship with them. Perhaps, this happens due to some psychological features inherited in almost every man.

So, many men believe that a woman with children is a “used property” but they prefer something that is entirely new. In addition, it is hard for a man to accept a child who is not of his own; in most cases, he wants his own wife and his own children.

Even men think that someone who is willing to have a relationship that involves children should be somewhat special. This relationship may happen only if a man really falls in love and feels cool with a woman having children.

Many men, especially at the age over 35, prefer that a woman does not have children not because they hate the idea of having children at all. They would love to have children but they believe that most women with kids do not want to have any more.

And finally, some men consider it absolutely unacceptable and awful to date a woman with kids. If you date a woman, you date her kids as well, they say. Children interfere with the relationship, because a woman will always think of her children first, and then consider man’s opinion.

Sometimes, men say that if a woman divorced with her husband or he left her with children, she is not able to supply a man with what he really wants. They instinctively expect things go wrong because a woman has a frustrated career of wife and housekeeper, or why her husband left her?

The rarest case is when men say that kids stimulate the relationship, make them get to a woman closer and enhance her beauty.

Perhaps, men are right by halves. It is very hard to accept a child who is not biologically yours if you do not experience great love to children overall.

Perhaps, a woman who already has two children won’t agree to have one more.

Perhaps, she pays more attention to children, because they naturally need more attention and care than a mature man does.

Sometimes, children, especially teenagers, do not accept “new father”, deliberately interfere with the relationship and often ruin it.

But, if you start dating with a woman who has children because you are interested in her, because her looks and personal qualities attract you, there is no need to fight with your desires and feelings because of children.

Some men start dating, make first steps but then disappear in fear of being caught in the nets. Even if feelings tend to be strong, they try to interrupt them from the very beginning. Children will never be an obstacle to happiness and sound relationship, if both partners approach to this question reasonably, make decisions together and meet each other halfway.