“The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it," Oscar Wilde once said. Psychologists have discovered that flirting is a good method to improve your health, refresh your mind and experience new emotions.

Note, we do not speak about marriage faithlessness; we speak about flirting alone, which does not suggest continuation of the relationship, sex or some other practical goals. Some men think that if a woman flirts with them, she promises something.

Of course, a woman pursues some obvious goals. Sometimes, women flirt to get a pure pleasure from flirting alone or to reveal their friendly intentions. While flirting, a woman shows her charm, attractiveness, sexuality, she feels more attractive and wishful, which amuses her self-dignity. A woman can flirt for the sake of flirting; for her flirting is a game of pleasure.

Such flirting stands no reasons for developing further relationship, whether it is a romantic dinner or new meeting. Flirting is just a possibility; it is not a promise or responsibility. This is the game, which has no winners or losers. This very possibility adds to flirting its special taste and pungency of feelings.

Lets go back to the healing effects of flirting. The resort doctors even recommend their visitors some slight flirting as a medicine. A short pleasant intrigue is the best amidst all medicine to help you cheer up and experience the influx of energy and strength.

The scientists suggest that the secret of flirting’ healing effect lies in its ability to stimulate the outlier of a diversity of hormones, including endorphins – “hormones of happiness”. It means that when we hear complements, walk in the light of moon, sense someone’s look of admiration, we receive a pack of many useful substances.

However, we should not mix flirting with marriage faithlessness. Classic flirting does not result in sex. The main goal of this flirting is to impress the partner, intrigue him and rouse his interest and curiosity. In the 18th-19th centuries, women learned the rules of flirting. This was a kind of game for two partners, when they were gradually kindling the interest of each other. They wrote love letters, sent flowers and showed a diversity of signs of interest.

The standpoint is that people, who have a hand in flirting and love it, are more self-confident and free in their actions. They are less subject to stresses and problems’ impacts.

The specialists say that flirting is useful for everyone. It helps young people know each other better and receive a very important experience in communication with an opposite sex. Moreover, it develops the communicative culture that includes such aspects as the skills to offer a hand to the lady, to invite for dancing, take home, elegantly touch and say goodbye.

Flirting helps mature men and women incorporate the elements of game, easiness and freshness into the relationship. It helps married people experience pleasant moments not breaking through the borders of moral and decency.

Classic flirting starts with the look that expresses your interest. There is no need to stare at a woman and examine her from head to foot. Tender, gentle and playful look results in best reaction. If you see that she smiles in return, go further and say a complement.

Here it is important not to be trapped. The matter is that pure flirting is deprived of commonplaces. Obscene jokes and anecdotes are not appropriate means to arouse mutual interest.

The same is about the complements’ nature. Some “lady-killers” often say banalities such as “Your eyes are very beautiful and your smile is so pleasant”. Mature women have heard such things thousands times in their life, if not millions. Hence, you should be more inventive with complements if you want to arouse sympathies.

It is important to pall on the woman and notice some special detail in her appearance that you really like. Then your complement will sound sincere and touch her soul for sure. Women like observant men.

One should be ready to the fact that flirting is just a short episode in his biography. Sometimes flirting turns into serious relationship, but in most cases flirting is love game, pleasant for both partners. Flirting is an excellent method to cheer up, feel your own attractiveness and charm, and experience the joy of life.

Passion is a storm or tornado of emotions, while flirting is a tender wave of the ocean. The end of romantic intrigue is one of rules of classic flirting, when the partners experience only most pleasant moments of the relationship and part before boredom and jealousy enter their life. Well-timed parting is the basis for future pleasant memories.