Difficult to dare for it? But you have decided to find your love and don’t know what to right. First of all don’t hurry up. Online dating can bring you disappointments as in real life. I advise you to believe and everything will be ok.

Now think of a woman you want to find: what traits do you evaluate, what features on your point of view she should have and so on. Have you thought? Good. Now you have some kind of woman’s type in your head and your task to awake her inertest in YOU!

You write general information about yourselves. Guys, why do you write just two words like: handsome man of middle age, 5 feet 15 inches tall and 210 pounds looks for a kind good-looking woman. Are you sure it’s enough?

Why does it sound so cold? This is not what she really needs to know about you, not in the introduction letter. No, in all reality what she needs to know is that you are serious, not just looking for a toy and a housekeeper, that you're not another pen pal type who'll never come and so on Why shouldn’t you write something te00000mpting, amazing and mysterious?

The objective of the introduction letter is to get a reply, get started corresponding. The letter writing process is as much seduction as it is informative. You know the first impression about you, your character the women will receive exactly from your letter. The letter is the most important object in your case that is able to change your life! Write a letter so that the women couldn’t stop reading it, she should reread it over and over again. Wait – the most important thing – after having read your letter the women she might have a steadfast desire to reply you. I would recommend you the best way to write letters - it is in a style I guess you could call romantic minimalism.

The first part of your letter must capture the attention of the lady you are writing. Think hard. How can a guy capture the attention of a lady? Try a compliment, for example.

The most important quality of "ideal men", in opinion of Russian women, is the intelligence. At a choice of the partner in life intelligence of the man on the first place put 36,7% of Russian women. On the second place - physical strength and health (36%), on the third - skill to provide a prosperity (34,1%), on the fourth - absence of harmful habits (28,6%), on the fifth v confidence of (23,1%), on the sixth - fidelity in love (21,9%), on the seventh - sense of humour (17,6%).

Sexuality is necessary on the eighth place. This quality appeared important only for 17% of Russian women. Every second of the interrogated women has declared, that already has met the love. About 27% of women, who yet have not met the partner in life, are sure, that him still will carry, and for 17%, as sociologists mark, "expectation of prince is painted by tones of some hopelessness". So dear men! You have a great opportunity to make somebody happy and be happy yourselves.

We all choose those who have something special (they say: he/she has it!) not only in appearance but also in letters. The women pay attention to your letters as well as to your photo. Photos should also be carefully chosen. A good photographer will go though 1-2 rolls of film and come up with 3-5 really good photos. These are the ones you want. If you don't want to pay the $200 that a good photographer will want, go and take a few rolls of yourself. Regardless, we'll want to have the negative handy. 80% of the people reading this will disregard it and when they do they normally send the following photos:

-Me and my car
-Me and my house
-Me with my beer buddies at the bar
-Me with my arms around some woman (regardless if she is a friend etc)
-Me in my office at my desk
-Me with my dogs

Am I right?

The photos should show you, and just you don't use a photo with material possessions to entice, you will probably regret attracting the wrong type of girl. A few photos are best. Russian women put a lot of emphasis on the eyes. I recommend a photo or 2 with a smile. A good face shot is important. Remember, first impressions are the most important.

Everything I describe is proven, and I recommend only the best. Regardless if you decide to write or just get on a plane I wish you the best.

Elmira Khuzina