Many men meet and date beautiful women and consider it the easiest thing to do although  their appearance is far different from Apollo’s profile and their manners are much to be desired, while others come across problems any time they approach a woman. The question may be asked “What is the secret of their success?”

Well, perhaps, they have an inherited talent or gift to court and seduce women or they have learned from lots of mistakes, enriched their knowledge, skills, and changed their attitude. In any case, there are several points that can be summarized and greatly increase your chances to become a successful seducer.

You will not get more attractive, although general change in attitude naturally changes one’s appearance or attractiveness. There is no need to become a millionaire to seduce any woman you want. You need just learn to be what women want and if your goal is Russian woman, you need to learn to be what Russian women want.

Some people may think that such things as flirting, courting and seducing cannot exist in online dating. On the contrary, they do and evolve in their own forms. Well, here are some kea elements.

• Russian woman, as any woman, enjoys flirting and being flirted. She enjoys feeling like the epicenter of interest and your flirt is the sign of this interest. If you intend to subjugate her heart and mind, you must be in the right mood for flirting. Insincerity is always noticeable, even on line, while effective flirt is always sincere and results in her curiosity, common fun and adventure.
• Concentrate on what you can give a woman to make her feel good instead of focusing on whether you produce the impression at the moment or not. Gradually, your activities aimed at seducing a woman and making her feel good will become automatic and you will work out your own style of flirting and seducing.
• Be patient and analytic about the results. As a rule, men await immediate results from their actions. For instance, saying a complement, you await she kisses you at once, or when giving flowers you may speculate on how wonderful you spend today’s night in her bed.

Nothing of the kind. Although flowers given today may sometimes lead to her implicit obedience tomorrow, it depends on how you give these flowers. It is important to analyze the results and find tactics that work and don’t work. When you find out what makes you a failure, you will succeed. Learn to understand the effect of your flirts and seductive actions.

• Women are very resistant to men’s seducing attempts, because women want to become aware of your real attitude first. In addition, there is no general tactics to make you succeed about every woman. You and ONLY YOU should find the approach in each particular case. In most cases, paying more attention to the personality of a woman you want to court and seduce is the key to finding a correct and successful “tune”.
• Learn to listen to your instincts and intuition. Many times, we lose just because we don’t follow our deepest instincts, though they always give prompts of appropriate actions and behavior. You must feel a woman even if distant miles separate you from her. What does she need at the moment, an ICQ complement or your advice, a basket of flowers or simple “I care” sent via wires, a phone call, discussion of serious questions or a friendly chat?

Be yourself, but be gracious yourself. Learn how to accept and refuse graciously and how to approach and turn away graciously. This is what most men cannot do. They cannot say “no” in the way as not to hurt woman’s feelings. If you know how to graciously reject, it will naturally lead to the improvement of other personal qualities supporting your success.

• Measure woman’s reactions. It is always possible to read by her eyes, lips, movements, voice and tone the reaction toward your activity. Sometimes, men are so opinionated that they notice nothing of the kind thus lessen their chances to succeed. Read a woman “between the lines” and you will find out what she really wants to hear, feel and experience.

Well, these are some of significant points, which can help you become more successful about women or perhaps will lead you to the ultimate success. All depends on how you will apply these rules.

And of course, there is no need to say that to read and gradually forget about them is not the way around. These hints presume constant training and practice that will make you more sensitive, acute, intuitive and successful